So many things change over time, sexuality practices are no exception. In the olden days, sexual discourse was a taboo but today it is explicitly discussed in all forms of media. Despite this, virginity still remains the most important personal treasures of all. There is a turn on the methods that were used to test virginity for today's generation as things have turned challenging for guardians and parents in terms of controlling sexuality information that their children gets exposed to.
Today the HIV/Aids pandemic compels everyone to talk about sex, the correct practices and even how it should be done. Sex has undoubtedly turned into a transaction for all age groups. Having a family supported on sexual transaction is no longer surprising as it used to, say 20 years ago. Society has grown to tolerate immoral sexual practices and attribute all this to the economic downturn as numerous firms shut down, which result in increased unemployment.
In the past, it was strongly advocated for the youth to remain virgins until marriage. We still hear of that in churches and some religious circles even today. Gender roles were clear and respect for older people was a given. This made it easy for guardians/parents to monitor sexuality for their children.
Despite difficulties in managing sexuality for growing children today, there are options to tell of a sexually active child and one who isn't. It's no doubt a break through for guardians/parents to know when their children have become sexually active. The earlier they get know, the better. They can device mentoring strategies as it is obviously not good for children to be sexually active before committing themselves to a lasting heterosexual relationship, preferably in the confinement of marriage.
What would you do if you discovered that your child is sexually active?
What would a young man do if her fiancée claimed to be a virgin yet she is sexually active behind his back?
In Africa, old woman used certain methods to test if a girl is a virgin or not. Sometimes it didn't require that they touch or even talk to the girl but could know for sure she's sexually active. Those were surely quality methods that I want to term ‘Assessment Methods' as opposed to ‘testing'. I have taken the trouble to look out for such methods and compile an ebook for all to know these methods. They are assessment methods and not testing methods, which means that you use them without seeking permission from the girl/lady to access and has no limits. The strength of no limits can help you advice a friend whom you think needs to take precautions for her sexual behaviors and for young man it would help in marriage decision.
To learn more about this ebook, follow the link ‘The Hands-free African Virginity Testing Methods'.
About the Author:A writer, motivational speaker, teacher and a businessman. Authoring six motivational books and a freelencer for two local magazines. Website is yeboyesafrica.com.
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