Sex has a glaring symbolic meaning for women - for them sex is not just sex.
The emotional connection is the primary value of sex . For her it's all about the intimacy.
Every look, every touch, every taste, every smell and every sound are all part of the experience.
Bring on those emotions, let her experience them to the fullest.
She experiences sex with all her sense. By employing smell, taste, touch and sound, you can really get her going.
When you kiss her, focus on the kiss not on the end result. Slow down and savor the softness of her lips. Taste the sweetness of breath or the saltness of her skin. .
Gently run your fingers across her body and notice how her skin feels, and how she reacts.
Women love to be teased, so delay, create expectations and anticipation. Give her some of what she's expecting then back off a little. Then give her a bit more. Eventually you will have her in a frenzy.
She will read something into every kiss and touch so stay focused on pleasing her, not yourself.
Feel the love you have for her. Even if this is just a one night stand you should allow yourself to love her for the moment. What you feel will be expressed in your kisses and caresses and she will notice.
Take your time and live for the moment. Don't miss out on all the fantastic sensations by focusing on the outcome, just enjoy what is happening now. The end will come soon enough.
Remember for her it's not the orgasm that's important - it's the journey. The kissing and caressing are more important than the penetration.
Take a lesson from her, slow down and enjoy the experience. Not only will you satisfy her, you will enjoy sex that much more.
You may be thinking "he's talking about foreplay here". No this is not foreplay this is the actual act of making love. Foreplay is something else entirely, see How To Satisfy A Woman - Real Foreplay
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